Monday, August 1, 2016

2016.08.01 - Year of Arabia: Day 1 - The Oregon Coast, a Libyan Physician and a Cup of Tea

“A new language was formed by old ones running underneath and over one another. An ever-changing in-between. Christine could accept this fluidity as she now accepted the night creeping up over her, this blanket of warm dusk. And not just because it was inevitable, but because it was different every night: a performance, an adventure. She would have to learn all over again how to live in this new old place called home. The sky was now completely black. And somewhere far away, right now, it was dawn.” – Doreen Baingana, Tropical Fish

Day 1: Year of Arabia

Today, I did not read extensively about Arabia. Nor did I study its complex language. I did not travel its deserts or delight in its oases. Instead, I showed off the beauty of my own land by taking a Libyan friend to see the Oregon coast; it was his first time going to the ocean. A native of Tripoli, my new friend was no stranger to the sea, but oceans are not seas, and the mighty Pacific is even less so than most.

I relished being on the opposite side of tourism for once and maybe helping to balance out my extraordinary debt to those who have gone out of their way to show me their homelands. I will never be able to truly balance this enormous debt, but I must occasionally try.

I really enjoyed the trip and I hope he can say the same. The weather was beautiful, if atypical: blue skies and sunshine the whole time. After initially dipping a toe in the frigid surf, my friend swore off the idea of wading and instead, we found a rocky area and climbed around for a long time. I taught him the vocabulary of tide pools and their inhabitants and even convinced him to touch a sea anemone. He taught me Arabic numbers 11-20 and also patiently explained how anesthesiology basically works (he is a physician and I was curious).

At lunch we encountered our first major hurdle. He only ate halal meats and he personally did not like seafood either. I’ve never had a Muslim friend in America who has followed any dietary restrictions other than abstaining from pork so I didn't plan for that ahead of time. He politely picked at a basket of fries while I devoured a delicious clam chowder. If we go on any other excursions, perhaps packing our own lunches would be a better option.

Despite the mealtime hiccup, the day was great and I dropped him off in the late afternoon. On my way home, I stopped to run a few errands and bumped into Michael. Back for a month from the Netherlands, he was very busy preparing for his upcoming year at a university in Beirut, but not too busy for tea. We stopped into a little place called Arabian Nights and grabbed a table. The waiters were super nice and impressed with Michael’s ability to order exclusively in Arabic. I was envious.

In the end, despite the rough weekend beforehand and despite being stuck in Portland, I feel that my year of Arabia got off to a solid start.

Reading and Watching

1) The Secret Life of Saeed the Ill-fated Pessoptimist – Introduction by Salma Khadra Jayyusi

I read the introduction of this short book today and was thrilled to find that the writer introducing the novel compared it to Jaroslav Hasek’s The Good Soldier Svejk. Hasek’s work is surely one of my top 10 novels and I come back to it again and again in my mind. Good literary satire is surely the most rare kind of find and my expectations of the novel I held in my hands bloomed.

Beyond that, the introduction discussed the history of Arab literature in general and the entities in which this book poked fun at, including apparently the Palestinian upper class, “the author [Habiby] implies that the Palestinian catastrophe is not an isolated phenomenon; war and aggression were not inflicted upon a progressive social order but were the result of a double moral bankruptcy; the encounter of Israeli aggression and reactionary Arab politics”.

The introduction finishes by speaking about the changed expectations of humanity in our modern world and a “global recognition of the possibility for freedom, liberty, and human dignity, and its determination to defy all forms of aggression”. This is true. Ideas of dignity travel instantly across the planet and give humans heightened expectations and deepened dissatisfactions.

2) Gaddafi Libya a Short Cartoon to Try and Simplify the History


2016.08.01 - Year of Arabia: Day 1 - The Oregon Coast, a Libyan Physician and a Cup of Tea

“A new language was formed by old ones running underneath and over one another. An ever-changing in-between. Christine could accept this fluidity as she now accepted the night creeping up over her, this blanket of warm dusk. And not just because it was inevitable, but because it was different every night: a performance, an adventure. She would have to learn all over again how to live in this new old place called home. The sky was now completely black. And somewhere far away, right now, it was dawn.” – Doreen Baingana, Tropical Fish

Day 1: Year of Arabia

Today, I did not read extensively about Arabia. Nor did I study its complex language. I did not travel its deserts or delight in its oases. Instead, I showed off the beauty of my own land by taking a Libyan friend to see the Oregon coast; it was his first time going to the ocean. A native of Tripoli, my new friend was no stranger to the sea, but oceans are not seas, and the mighty Pacific is even less so than most.

I relished being on the opposite side of tourism for once and maybe helping to balance out my extraordinary debt to those who have gone out of their way to show me their homelands. I will never be able to truly balance this enormous debt, but I must occasionally try.

I really enjoyed the trip and I hope he can say the same. The weather was beautiful, if atypical: blue skies and sunshine the whole time. After initially dipping a toe in the frigid surf, my friend swore off the idea of wading and instead, we found a rocky area and climbed around for a long time. I taught him the vocabulary of tide pools and their inhabitants and even convinced him to touch a sea anemone. He taught me Arabic numbers 11-20 and also patiently explained how anesthesiology basically works (he is a physician and I was curious).

At lunch we encountered our first major hurdle. He only ate halal meats and he personally did not like seafood either. I’ve never had a Muslim friend in America who has followed any dietary restrictions other than abstaining from pork so I didn't plan for that ahead of time. He politely picked at a basket of fries while I devoured a delicious clam chowder. If we go on any other excursions, perhaps packing our own lunches would be a better option.

Despite the mealtime hiccup, the day was great and I dropped him off in the late afternoon. On my way home, I stopped to run a few errands and bumped into Michael. Back for a month from the Netherlands, he was very busy preparing for his upcoming year at a university in Beirut, but not too busy for tea. We stopped into a little place called Arabian Nights and grabbed a table. The waiters were super nice and impressed with Michael’s ability to order exclusively in Arabic. I was envious.

In the end, despite the rough weekend beforehand and despite being stuck in Portland, I feel that my year of Arabia got off to a solid start.

Reading and Watching

1) The Secret Life of Saeed the Ill-fated Pessoptimist – Introduction by Salma Khadra Jayyusi

I read the introduction of this short book today and was thrilled to find that the writer introducing the novel compared it to Jaroslav Hasek’s The Good Soldier Svejk. Hasek’s work is surely one of my top 10 novels and I come back to it again and again in my mind. Good literary satire is surely the most rare kind of find and my expectations of the novel I held in my hands bloomed.

Beyond that, the introduction discussed the history of Arab literature in general and the entities in which this book poked fun at, including apparently the Palestinian upper class, “the author [Habiby] implies that the Palestinian catastrophe is not an isolated phenomenon; war and aggression were not inflicted upon a progressive social order but were the result of a double moral bankruptcy; the encounter of Israeli aggression and reactionary Arab politics”.

The introduction finishes by speaking about the changed expectations of humanity in our modern world and a “global recognition of the possibility for freedom, liberty, and human dignity, and its determination to defy all forms of aggression”. This is true. Ideas of dignity travel instantly across the planet and give humans heightened expectations and deepened dissatisfactions.

2) Gaddafi Libya a Short Cartoon to Try and Simplify the History


Finances – 2016.08.01
Gas: $20.95
Parking: $2.20
Day: 1
Daily Total: $23.15
Grand Total: $23.15
Daily Average: $23.15

Saturday, July 30, 2016

2016.08.30 - The Inverse Relationship of Altitude and Heartbreak

“A lover’s a liar, To himself he lies. The truthful are loveless, Like oysters in their eyes.” – Kurt Vonnegut, The Cat’s Cradle

The weekend before my Year of Arabia began in tears (uncharacteristic for me). Ironically, they were caused by an Arab man. I considered revising my start date due to this inauspicious beginning, but I proceeded, for better or worse. Our whole long, messy history is too complicated to go into (and I don’t trust myself at the moment to relay a balanced version of the events) but suffice it to say that it did not end well. End however, it did. He is agreeing to an arranged marriage. He had his reasons, but still, in the end, he was a coward in a variety of ways.

Typically, when my heart hurts, I jump on a plane. Nothing, and I mean nothing, helps the heart like the feeling of wheels up on a 747. I’m 35 and I’ve certainly suffered my fair share of broken hearts, but no matter the quantity or quality of tears I’ve shed at airports around the world, and no matter how determined I am to hold onto the pain, the most devastating aspects of the sadness seem to stay firmly rooted to the earth. The airplane thrusts me, involuntarily, up and away from them. Just as I can’t will the plane back to earth, I can’t keep my level of heartache sufficiently elevated. Thus, for me, altitude and heartache are inversely related.

But now I am going nowhere. I will, in all likelihood, be here working through October. Stuck on the ground with all of my pain.


Determined to pursue my goal for the upcoming year, I contacted a few friends from the Middle East. Just a few quick texts. A ‘good morning’ to a Libyan friend here in Portland. A ‘good evening’ to an Israeli friend in Tel Aviv. Nothing ground breaking, but talking to friends when your heart hurts is good in and of itself.